Whatever

Would I want to know everything or memang some things are better left unsaid and unknown?

I'm not sure .. but what I know is that I value honesty.. maybe it also depends on the reason why in the first place I'm not being told about it.... if it's because it needs to be made a secret knowing that I don't like it being done and I would get pissed ... then by not telling that would be you being dishonest right? But if it's just simply nothing then I would not even give a hoot about it lah kan.

Or if you don't want to tell and you just want to wait until the whole thing blows up on your face pun boleh.

Whatever..Whichever..the end result will be the same..I guess.

Mamma Yaya!

Tulah..orang tua2 kata jangan excited sangat... tengah pokai tapi sanggup nak spend RM 300 tengok Mamma Mia konon...

My family bids farewell to 2008 with a heavy heart.. Sarah a.k.a Yaya, our little baby girl was down with a high fever on the 29th of December...(note: a day before Mamma Mia) We thought it was just viral fever... gave her medications.. even brought her out for makan on the 1st day she fell sick...

This was Sarah's first time on a baby chair...we were laughing because she was dozing off.. time ni ingat dia letih biasa aje..

But on the way back home I could feel that she was burning hot so we decided to go to a private hospital near our place.. Dr.African American (yes, he's not even Malaysian) told us that her temperature then was about 39 and so kena immediately check darah.. it was really scary the way the MO tried to get the blood sample from little Sarah.. she was super terrified and I was super horrified! Dr.African American said that from the blood test Sarah was confirmed to have dengue as her platlet count had dropped to 120 so she has to be hospitalized...

We brought Sarah to another private hospital so that she could be under the watch of her usual paeditrician... again little Sarah had to go through another blood test just a couple of hours after she had the first one... so you can just imagine how agonising it was for a little baby.
Little Sarah after the 2nd blood test and after they have put her on drip.

Yaya was warded and put on drip.. I spent the night with her but both of us of course could not sleep much.. Yaya was coughing and vomitting..but I was relieved when the nurse told me that Yaya was only down with viral fever as her platlet count was 160 and she tested -ve for dengue.. however, the dr on call that night said that she had a bad case of athma and has to be on nebulizer + undergo physio-therapy..

Did'nt bring toys for Yaya so these became her toys instead..

Yaya was crying and screaming throughout physio.. seriously I did'nt know when they say physio it means medically bashing my daughter and poking a tube through her throat.. Yaya now has developed a phobia for nurses and drs..

The next day, Yaya's paeditrician visited her and was not so agreeable on the treatments that were given to Yaya... so he asked to stop the physio treatment and some medications..as Yaya's fever was subsiding dr gave us some hope that she could be discharged that day butjust to be sure another blood test had to be done.. nasib baik this time when they took her blood she was sleeping... when the blood test came back, tengok2 Sarah memang confirm dengue pulak as her platlet count was dropping..

On the day that she was confirmed to have dengue she konged out for about 12 hours.. I managed to catch up on my reading and movies..

Thank God she was progressing well.. and after a couple of blood tests and another night in the hospital her platlet count was up again.. She was discharged today(new year)..at least we welcome the new year with a good news.. hopefully she will be better soon..

Happy New Year everybody!

Note: blogger is very sleepy whil blogging this so excuse the storyline, grammatical errors, spelling etc.

A friend indeed

If you have a friend name Afida Nor Said, trust me you'll never be bored!(Fida, if you're reading this, I'm putting your name in full for easy googling..hehe). I finally managed to catch up with Fida Nor on Christmas eve. No pics as I've forgotten to bring my camera... :p so I'm putting the most recent pic I've of her.. during our Raya reunion..

(me, fida and jett)

We're friends since I dunno.. Form 4 kot... Before that we knew each other lah but we were not that close.. She was not my best friend..and I am not her best friend either...but.. we are to each other kawan mengadu..lepas geram..ngumpat..gossip..until forever lah.. after college we went our separate ways but 2-3 tahun sekali we meet up...to gossip..and usually it will be about the same people pon.. hehe..

Had so many things to talk about sampai 2 jam pun tak cukup. I should put her on speed dial. If I need a 'pick-me-up' session, she will definitely be in my top list.

How cruel...

OMG! What has the world become??!!!!! These people don't deserve to live.
I hope the government would be more strict and serious to fight against pedophilia..porn..

This is just very sad.


Dua beranak nafsu haiwan
Oleh Ahmad Saufi Mansoropie@hmetro.com.my

BUTTERWORTH: Bernafsu haiwan adalah perkataan paling sesuai untuk dua beranak, termasuk remaja lelaki berusia 16 tahun yang ditahan polis selepas disyaki menodai seorang bayi perempuan baru berusia 20 bulan.Kejadian itu hanya disedari ibu bayi berkenaan apabila pulang ke rumahnya di sini kira-kira jam 11 malam Jumaat lalu apabila melihat bayinya menangis begitu lama.

Sebelum itu, sumber berkata, wanita berusia 32 tahun yang bekerja sebagai juruwang itu meminta ibunya mengambil bayinya yang ditinggalkan di rumah pengasuh kira-kira 50 meter dari rumahnya.Katanya, wanita itu kemudian mendapati bayinya menangis dengan kuat apabila dibawa pulang ke rumah, tetapi dimaklumkan ibunya dia mungkin demam.“Wanita itu yang tidak berpuas hati kemudian memeriksa dan mendapati ada kesan darah dan luka pada bahagian sulit bayi perempuannya.“Dia kemudian terus membawa bayinya yang menangis dengan kuat tidak berhenti-henti ke Hospital Seberang Jaya (HSJ), di sini. “Hasil pemeriksaan doktor mengesahkan terdapat kesan koyak pada kemaluan mangsa.

Bagaimanapun, keadaannya kini dilaporkan stabil dan masih menerima rawatan di HSJ,” katanya.Berikutan itu, ibu mangsa membuat laporan polis.Ibu kanak-kanak itu yang enggan dikenali, berkata dia tidak menyangka kejadian berkenaan boleh berlaku ke atas bayi perempuannya.Menurutnya, dia menghantar anaknya ke rumah pengasuh berkenaan sejak 14 November lalu dan menjelaskan bayaran RM150 untuk bulan pertama.“Kejadian itu memang di luar jangkaan kerana tiada siapa memberitahu perangai sebenar lelaki berkenaan. Dia tergamak melakukan perkara itu ke atas bayi saya,” katanya.Sementara itu, Timbalan Ketua Polis Daerah Seberang Prai Utara, Superintendan Mohd Sukri Awang ketika dihubungi mengesahkan kejadian terbabit.

Menurutnya, polis sudah menahan seorang lelaki berusia lewat 30-an dan anak lelakinya pada Sabtu lalu untuk membantu siasatan kes berkenaan yang dibuat mengikut Seksyen 376 Kanun Keseksaan.“Kami masih melakukan siasatan berhubung kejadian berkenaan,” katanya enggan mengulas lanjut.

Missing the DC days

The last time we got together and really sat to chat and catch up with each other was probably 3 years ago..that was in Hartamas and with the whole gang..Shirl, Midge, Fat,Amir, Najib, Louie, Judd, Michelle..After that we rarely kept in touch especially after the few of us left DC..and Fat had to be with MB in Pekan. So, I really looked forward to seeing Fat today. She came down from Kuantan and we decided to meet up for dinner. Judd joined us as well. Too bad Shirl was in Melaka.

Fat (in pink) is by the way a mother 4..eldest daughter taking SPM next year...youngest son is 6 months old.. and she still has a body of a 20 year old okay..

Had so much fun catching up with them.. although balik2 cerita sama jugak actuallynya bila jumpa.. gave myself a curfew konon sampai 9pm aje..but only reached home at 11.00pm.

Frankly I really miss working at DC..with the DC team and all..working culture is very different...truly enjoyed working there. Some people still think that I was crazy to have left DC.. if I had stayed I would probably be driving a B170 MB by now..inila kereta Corp Comm Manager DC skarang... tsk..tsk... but it's all God's will la kan.. rezeki kat mana2 pun ada..

New house

We're starting yet another new chapter in our life.. we're basically co-owners of a new house in Bangi.. if all goes well and we have enough moolahss then we would be able to move in some time early next year... already hubby has spent more than he's supposed to for renovations.. we initially wanted to just do some simple renovations..but then our neighbour had to have a house which is Anjung Seri and Impiana material lah pulak.. so we decided to spend a little bit extra.. No pics as yet lah ye.. Let's wait untill we at least have the doors and windows fixed and I'll post some pics...

Our cuti and day out

We had a full-day agenda.. starting from breakfast till dinner.. I guess because we squeezed everything in one day we did'nt manage to have some quality time together.. but we had fun nonetheless!

The spa experience was not that great.. sho-on and azah said it was ok..but I dunno.. felt kinda kwa and dodgy to me.. soo0 not the spa experience that I expected... and trust me I don't have that high of an expectation..tapi decor boleh bagi A- lah... still bila tengok lama2..ada jugak the dodginess...

We decided to do something different that day.. so we arranged for a group photo shoot with prettypeektures..we were all like super kayu okay! Our 'warming up session' consists of laughing at each other's kayuness and telling the photographer to make sure that we all look slim in the pics no matter what it takes! hehe.. Min, the photographer was really good.. he has shot wedding pics for Bunga+Ashraff, Ning+Omar and Aishah Sinclair+hubby... we've yet to see the edited versions of our pic.. I'm just giving a preview of the unedited ones..

Photo shoot took about 3 hours.. but Min only charged us for 2 hrs.. I think we got a good bargain from the package that was on offer..if you guys are interested to take some wedding/family pics I can pass his number to you.. he took nice family pics as well.. you can view his portfolio at http://www.prettypeektures.com/

Had a quick dinner at Las Carretas.. already tired by then.

Reached home at 10.30pm and Amir+Sarah were already asleep.

Girls, I think for the next outing.. we better not do so many things at one go kan..

Well, hopefully we can catch up again at dinner before Mama Mia!.